Finding God In Everything

Since the birth of my son almost two years ago I have lost what used to be my uninterrupted time with God in the mornings. That quiet time is now filled with diaper changes, bottles, fits of laughter or would be tantrums (depending on the morning) baths and tripping over forgotten toys.

I’d pray a short prayer asking God to forgive me for cutting our time. I would ask him to show me how to get back to the way it used to be, when I would spend time with him without the interruptions and then I’d have to ask for forgiveness for calling my son an interruption.

Since then God has shown me new ways to spend time with him. It was an adjustment but I now realize that I can still speak with him and hear him at bath time, when I pick up toys off the ground and even when I change dirty diapers.

Looking back at the life Jesus our example led we can see that even though he spent quiet time with God, he was still connected to his father even when the crowds pressed upon him. He showed us that we can stay connected even when we perform little acts of service.

Now I see each task in a new light. When I am forced to remove stuffed Pooh from a sink of dirty dishes for the eleventh time, I am reminded that there is no limit to God’ forgiveness. As I stare in dismay at my pile of clothes that needs to get laundered and see the stains caused by spilled food, I am reminded of God’s promise to cover us with his righteousness.

So even though I no longer have the “quiet time” that I once craved I have adjusted and found new ways to invite and enjoy God’s presence.

This is the day that the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it. Psalm 118:24

How do you find God in the chaos that we call life?

Train Up A Child

Each day I am confronted with the challenges of training my son. All of the books written on parenting could not have prepared me for this. There are times when I look at my almost angelic child and think that being his mom is the best thing that ever happened to me. And it is.

But then, he awakes from sleep. I am then confronted with his stubborn streak that he must have inherited from me and I wonder where did I go wrong? At these times it is sometimes easier for as a parent to say, that I’ll just let him be because I am just tired of repeating myself. It may seem easier to give into the tantrums because then I won’t have to deal with the screaming.

It is at these times, god reminds me that I am responsible for training him in the way that he must go. In this popular verse, God did not offer a suggestion to parents. He commands us to train our children and by doing so we shape their future.

So how does God want us to train our children? What exactly is child training? And what single principle can parents teach their children that they will carry throughout their lifetime?

I believe that God wants us as adults to accept the bible as the ultimate authority for our lives. By demonstrating the authority of the Bible in our lives we teach our children to accept God’s authority over their lives. This is a guiding principle that no one can depart from.

I believe that our relationship with our children should be a reflection of God’s relationship with us. Just as God is patient, loving, forgiving, faithful, kindhearted and trustworthy with us we ought to be the same with our children. By doing this we are revealing God’s true character to them.

As I write this post, I am reminded that God wants me to train up my son in the way that he ought to go. I am reminded that yelling, nagging, rules, time out, television, toys do not fall under the category of child training.

Today I resolve to make a consistent effort to train my son to know the Lord. I trust that God will bless my efforts and one day my son will grow into an adult that I can be proud of. Lord help us to raise children in whom you can be well pleased!

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. Proverbs 22:6

The God Who Supplies All Our Needs

KnockHave you ever felt that in spite of all you may be doing that you are still not doing something right? Even when other praise your efforts, do you feel that somehow it is underserved?

Do you chase dream after dream and when it is accomplished you still feel empty inside? Maybe you’ve caught yourself saying if only I had a bit more money, or a more lavish home, or a car that starts when I want it to, only then  will I be happy.

Then how do you explain the unhappiness that is unknowingly expressed by the rich and famous?

I have been guilty of wanting more, thinking that with the fulfilment of my needs, joy will endlessly abound. It never really does and for me this was one of life’s hardest lessons. I have spent time chasing after material possessions and looking back I wish that I would have spent that time building a relationship with the one who can fulfill ALL my needs.

I recall, some years ago, when I sold Avon in an effort to earn extra income. I would go into a retirement home that was close to my home in Jacksonville, Florida. The ladies there would be especially happy when I visited they would chat merrily as the flipped through the catalogs. The time soon came when I had to visit them almost daily just so that they can talk about life, past loves, children and things that they wish that they could undo.

I look back on those days as the happiest moments in my life. I had adopted these women as my family and they had adopted me as their child. We talked about life and its meaning,  we talked about God and his plans for us. Those were truly happy times because I could leave the cares of work behind and just bring companionship to women, some of whom felt abandoned by their children.

It became more of a blessing to me than to them. I have since learnt the lessons that they tried to impart and I will share the short of it with you right now.

Do not wait until the age of retirement to give God your best. Do something for him right now. Ask him of his purpose for your life and do what he bids.

He has a special plan for my life but I must first give him my complete being. It may not be the easiest road, and it may mean leaving my comfort zone but I remember that God provides for my needs on a daily basis and he knows what I can and cannot manage. He will do the same for you!

I am wealthy because God keeps blessing me. I am safe because God is my refuge. I am strong because God is my strength. I am wise because God is my teacher. I am saved because he has forgiven me and covered me with his righteousness.

Today I will pray that you find your purpose in God and do his will because of the assurance of his presence and the guarantee that he keeps his promises.

But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

The Value Of Giving

Value Of Giving As I passed my two year old his bowl of cereal I knew that he would eventually climb off his chair and dutifully hand me a few. This has become quite a ritual at our home, I would give him his meals and he would ensure that I had some.

How do you feel when you give? Especially when it is of great value to the receiver. Does it cost a lot to share the blessings that God has given us with each other?

This brings to mind the great sacrifice that god made for us. He gave us all he had in his only son so that we can one day enjoy the blessings he so wants to bestow upon us.

I think of my son sharing his Trix with me and his beloved toys with his friends, I pray that he maintains that habit as he grows into adulthood.

I pray that we all remember what God has given us and wholeheartedly give to others. So let’s not think twice about offering our time, efforts and material gains to those in need!

I would like to hear your thoughts on the value that your giving has brought to you and to others.

Remember:

Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares. Heb. 13:2